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The Frailty of Life

The Frailty of Life

December 05, 2019

December 2019

As a financial advisor, it may be a misnomer to write about the frailty of life. After all, if I am in the business of making people money on their money by making solid financial recommendations, why would I waste time discussing anything other than perfectly blue skies?

Wall Street does seem to want financial advisors to portray an image of prosperity. And, this is the way it should be. Just not all the time.

For instance, I believe that every new investor I meet wants to hear and see a confident presentation from a confident financial advisor. Any new coach would want to portray the same for his or her athletes.

But I've learned through the years, that some people who really need financial advice don't always seek it out unless their current financial season is a good one.

Those who have just lost a job, made poor decisions, or just plain had a bad year--- often feel uncomfortable sharing their woes. And to me, that's incredibly unfortunate. It's in the winter that the roots grow the deepest. If your current financial season of life has taken some hits, this could be a great time to dig in and make some soulful changes.

Life is Fragile

One of my first blogs last year was on budgeting. The driving force behind the post was that all of us need a budget—even those—who are in a season of prosperity. It's just smart business. If life is fragile, and can change on a dime, then having had a banner year in 2019 just means that you better have a larger Murphy's Law fund (AKA Emergency Fund) in 2020.

Murphy doesn't care how financially healthy you think you are, or how impervious you might feel to financial loss. That's why I recommend a solid financial plan for folks from just about all seasons of life. (You can read our Beginner's Guide to Working with a Financial Planner here. )

Bankruptcy & Stupid Debt

Bankruptcy is something that many go through. If this has happened to you don't feel bad. Many smart people and companies have had to file, and it is not the end of the world. Do you know what Coca-Cola, Kodak, Marvel, General Motors, and Radio Shack have in common? I'll bet you guessed it. All have gone bankrupt at least once. While Ford Motor Company has never filed bankruptcy, its founder, Henry Ford, went bankrupt twice before he got it right.

But maybe your situation is not so dire. Maybe you just made some poor decisions with what Dave Ramsey would call “stupid debt”. Stupid debt is when you did something that was financially—well—not such a good idea. For example, you may have gone on a vacation that you couldn't afford. Or, you may have spent some money before you had it by placing a purchase or two on your Visa.

Not to worry, you just have to pay the stupid tax. In other words, pay your debtors, plus interest.

´╗┐Stay Inspired No Matter What

This Christmas season don't get taken down by the past. The past is gone, and you can't get it back. But you can learn from your mistakes—or misfortune—and get busy rebuilding.

Also, please know that not everyone's financial health is perfect when they seek out a financial advisor. And yours doesn't have to be either. Financial advisors are doing a better job these days helping people from all financial seasons because life, after all, is fragile.


How to Stay Inspired

Be Smart: Why Everyone Needs a Budget

The Financial Planning Revolution: A Beginner's Guide to Working with a Financial Planner


10 Once-Dominant Businesses that Ended up Declaring Bankruptcy

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Henry Ford's Bankruptcy's Offer Lessons in Persistence

About the Author

Jeff Headrick is an independent financial planner and wealth manager with Inspire Financial Planning. When Jeff was still in his teens his father died unexpectedly. While his father was a hard worker and a good provider, he did not have the best financial plan in place when he died.

This left his family at a tough financial crossroad. This personal experience, coupled with being inspired by Sir John Templeton, Warren Buffett, Dave Ramsey, and the laws of compound interest, prompted Jeff to enter the financial services industry in 1999. He has been helping people with their financial planning ever since.

Jeff lives in Wilmington, NC with his wife and two children. He spends most of his spare time just across the Intracoastal Waterway in Wrightsville Beach, enjoying the beauty of the NC Coast.

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